✨💛 HOW DO YOU LET SOMEONE GO WHEN THERE’S SO MUCH LOVE? 💛✨

As humanbeings, we’re complex and are always changing.

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I really believe letting go is one of the most important skills you can have.
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You might hold onto an image people have of you, not really exploring all shades of your essence, afraid of breaking that facade.
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An older version of you might no longer serving you anymore but not knowing what’s on the other side, you might still hold onto it.
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When it comes to intimate relationships, some end because there was a betrayal of trust or something abrupt or definite like that happened.
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I find these are easier to let go. They can be still painful but there are solid obvious reasons to let go and move on.
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Then there are other relationships that just end their cycle and it is true to let it go.
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They transform you. They give you a lesson and then they’re complete.
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Now what do you do if there’s still so much love?
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It can be even more challenging if it was the deepest, most intimate and loving relationship that you ever created.
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You might feel guilty or not wanting to hurt that person. You might feel fear and mistrust around how to create this kind of relationship again.
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Any action you take out of fearing something, will create the exact thing you fear.
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It’s inevitable, the action is coming from fear not truth or love.
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Love is honest and true. Love tells the truth no matter how painful it is.
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Following the truth serves everyone’s highest good even when it doesn’t feel like it in the moment.
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I really struggled to let my ex go.
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We knew the truth deep down and tried to go around it until we couldn’t avoid it anymore.
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I’m proud of that version of me who followed the truth. It was hard as hell and took 10 months to finally let go.
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The part of you that wants to hold on is not love. It’s the part of you that doesn’t trust life or yourself.
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It’s the not knowing and wanting to know.
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It’s the safety and control.
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There’s also another part of you that trusts and surrenders. That’s where the magic is. That’s where the allowing and receiving is 💫
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So how do you let someone go when there’s so much love?
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Just like dropping a pen, you stop holding on.
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You follow what’s true and you feel it all as you do. You keep your heart open and let love in more and more.
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You let go and surrender ✨
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Last year, I wrote about how unconditional love sets you free.
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You can read it here -
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https://www.facebook.com/595885299/posts/10161556333925300/?extid=qVUR1pgxQsWCb87L&d=n
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And where does the love go?
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The love never goes away, it only deepens.
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That is unconditional love 🤗
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Love you 💛
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Art by @android_jones
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(One of my favourite pieces of art ever)
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