✨ THE GIFT OF SOULMATES ✨

I want to write about this as I had few discussions with my close friends.

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There can be this idea where you meet your soulmate and you’re meant to be with them forever.
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I don’t believe that.
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From my experience, soulmates ignite a truth deep within you. They teach you a lesson and then their job is done.
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Sometimes they stay after that, sometimes they don’t. And that’s ok.
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My ex Aaron Le Conte is my soulmate. He taught me how to love unconditionally, helped me crack open my heart, soften and surrender. He helped me change who I am at the core becoming more of myself ✨
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Two years ago, letting go of him and our relationship was hands down the hardest thing I did in my life.
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One of the creations that I’m most proud of in my life is our friendship now. We transformed all the sexual and relationship energy into unconditional love that now feeds into our friendship.
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It took true vulnerability, wanting the same depth of friendship and open communication. With an overlay of lots of arguments lol 😂
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My Ego wanted to hold onto Aaron thinking if I let him go, the love and transformation goes away too.
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The relationship goes away but the unconditonal love stays.
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The transformation stays.
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The emerged new version of you stays.
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And that is the gift of a soulmate.
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In some cases, the soulmate is meant to leave your life. Let them go 💫
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Another soulmate I have is my friend Amanda Hunt. She teaches me to step into my power and be myself unapologetically.
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Both Aaron and Amanda trigger me, they show me my sh*t, help me transmute that and come back to love every time.
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They help me grow, become more of who I am and tell me the truth every day.
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This is not to say you don’t have a life partner you grow old with forever. If that is something you would love, absolutely, go for that and have that 🙏🏼
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Also know that when you hold onto the best thing ever happened to you up until now, you’re blocking the possibility of something even greater coming your way 🤗
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Receive the gift with gratitude 🙏🏼
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Then continue welcoming all of life with open arms, open body and an open heart 💫
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That’s where the magic is ✨
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Love you 💛
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